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My 2009 End-Of-Year Review

Thursday, December 31st, 2009

Major Achievements

  • Got straight As in the fall semester
  • Defeated depression
  • Opened and funded a high-yield savings account
  • Made over $200 dollars by writing

Minor Achievements

  • In better shape now
  • Maintained the One-Year Tightrope for a month and a half without missing an article
  • Wrote in a journal every day for two months straight
  • Made an excellent, supportive new friend
  • May have gotten a steady job as a writer
  • Began eating well and exercising regularly
  • Implemented a productivity system that works for me
  • Learned to brainstorm effectively

Growth

  • Learned introductory accounting
  • Understood object-oriented PHP
  • Began re-learning Spanish
  • Meditated somewhat regularly

Failures

  • Did not make $1,000 online like I wanted
  • Did not get a job like I should have
  • Made a B in Biology over the summer
  • My GPA is still not to 3.5
  • Operated under a very high level of stress

Positives of Failures

  • Encouraged to work harder next year
  • Know more resources for making money online
  • Learned a lot about myself and how far I can be stretched

What I will do the same

  • Continue to work smartly
  • Continue to plan and review weekly
  • Continue to learn and grow every day
  • Exercise and eat healthily

What I will do differently

  • Be kinder to myself
  • Study more often for harder classes
  • Begin meditating more often
  • Work more toward my 101 in 1,001 goals
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How to Do a Year-End Review

Thursday, December 31st, 2009
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Any regular reader of the One-Year Tightrope and all who follow a lifestyle of planning know that reviewing is one of the most important activities involved in staying organized and productive. Reviews also have the ability to increase motivation both negatively (“I wish I would have…”) and positively (“I am so glad I…”). This is a how-to guide for performing an effective end-of-year review.

Step 1: Preparation

Prepare for your review by going to a quiet place, turning off your phone and television, breathing deeply, and focusing on the task at hand. Clear your mind of all other thoughts and stresses as if you are going to meditate (You are going to meditate on the year, after all). Make sure you are at peace before you continue so that you will get an objective, positive review, rather than one that is negatively affected by bad thoughts. Get out a piece of paper or open a new file on your computer. You will be doing some writing.

Step 2: What were your major achievements?

Begin the review by writing out major achievements and how you completed them. For example, if you got a promotion in March and had worked on getting it since January 1, write down that detail. Try to come up with as many major achievements as possible.

Step 3: What were your minor achievements?

I am certain that while listing major achievements, you recognized many minor achievements. List all of these underneath the major achievements to which they apply, or separately if they are not relevant. Perhaps you finished reading five books or can do a few more crunches than before.

Step 4: What did you learn?

Growth is an achievement all on its own, so write “Growth” as its own setting and below it, write everything you learned and accomplished applicable to your journey in life. Some examples may be understanding a complicated concept in your industry or figuring out your parenting style.

Step 5: How did you fail?

A review is not impartial without listing some negatives. Write down how you managed to fail and what you could or should have done better.

Step 6: How is this good?

Turn your negatives into positives by asking yourself what you can take away from your failures. Did you learn something? Do you now have motivation to do something better next time, after seeing the consequences of your poor performance?

Step 7: What will you do the same?

Was there anything you did this year that was absolutely brilliant? Perhaps you learned a new, positive activity or began a hobby that relaxes you and keeps you sane day in day out.

Step 8: What will you do differently?

Do not “undo” your failures, but rather try to think of how you can live your life better for the next year. Perhaps you will exercise more or try to go to bed by a certain time every night, dedicating your evenings to relaxation and re-energizing your mind. This is similar to your New Year’s resolutions, only now you have a guide to building ones that matter.

Step 9: Put it away

Contrary to popular belief, a list of goals does not necessarily work best when it is seen constantly. If anything, it can be a painful reminder of how far behind schedule you are. Take one goal at a time and work on it gradually, breaking it into small steps on a to-do list. As you finish, check it off and find a new goal. Keep it findable and review it often, but do not focus only on it, or you will become stressed.

What is your advice for completing an end-of-year review? Have you done one before? What are you proud of? What does yours look like? What are your goals for the new year?

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Life Coaches: Useful?

Tuesday, December 29th, 2009

One luxury becoming increasingly popular over the last few years is that of having a life coach. A life coach is a person one sees regularly for advice, updates, and help with planning and executing life goals. A life coach may also be a therapist, a close friend, an interior designer, a business mentor, or many other things. Outside of movies and celebreality television shows, I have never seen a life coach nor heard of the services offered. It seems to be a career much like animal psychics: limited to certain affluent areas and laughed at by the majority of working America.

But the segment of the population that reads The One-Year Tightrope is not average. I consider my readers to be intelligent and extraordinary. You guys do want to take measures to keep your life livable and successful, right?

The advantages of seeing a life coach can be many. A weekly, monthly, or even yearly trip with the sole purpose of reviewing previous actions and planning next steps is a healthy ritual I would like to see more of. I do feel, however, that the visits are unnecessary for many people, who have the ability to plan and review just as well on their own, or by brainstorming with close friends who have similar goals and abilities. I bounce ideas off of a few of my friends, particularly Logan, who also authors a blog and is a programmer (and a businessman).

Even so, just as I enjoy seeing a financial advisor informally, I think I would enjoy discussing progress and plans so far with somebody who listens to plans for a living. I think I would also enjoy becoming a life coach, because I do know planning and I believe I could offer some very meaningful advice.

My question for today is whether or not you have a life coach. Do you laugh at the job like much of the rest of us? Are you interested in seeing one? Do you enjoy your visits? What do you actually talk about?

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Balanced Business: Ethics in Advertising

Sunday, December 27th, 2009
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Marketers, advertisers, and business owners are constantly trying to dream up new ways to get the word out about their products and convince consumers that their products are the only products which fulfill a want or need. No matter what industry, this is the constant struggle. Whether successful or unsuccessful, there have been extreme measures taken I would like to discuss today. Some measures are okay, while others are completely immoral, unethical, or even illegal.

Sex in Advertising

Anybody over the age of three knows: sex sells. And because of its potential power, many advertising agencies turn to it for selling anything from beer and cigarettes to Swiffer and Febreze. Shampoo and deodorant have little to do with sex (at least, as far as I know), so I fail to see the connection when watching Herbal Essences or Axe commercials (As many know, I have many other things against Axe).

Do you think it is appropriate to use sex in advertising, considering who has the potential to see it and be harmed by it? If a company is so desperate to sell their products that they turn to this form of advertising, do you stop using it, or do you go out of your way to fund more nonsense just from the immense sympathy and pity you have?

Ethics: Cigarettes and Booze

Many people watch the Superbowl every year, meaning hundreds of millions of people around the world are staring at a pair of breasts trying to sell them on Budweiser. Cigarettes have many limitations, and there are very few advertisements for tobacco since laws were passed against certain things a decade ago. Unfortunately, alcohol is still known and advertised as a fun product to be consumed at every party. Their only limitation is to say, “Please drink responsibly,” while showing irresponsible commercials. Children are exposed to this every day across the country, leading them to becoming careless and irresponsible adults. While we cannot solely blame advertisements – surely, parents are to blame, as well – we can hold this behavior against them.

Should alcohol companies be allowed to air commercials? How much exposure is too much?

Marketing and Pedophilia

In a business class, I once watched a video on marketers and how they are targeting children, attempting to turn them into consumers and transform them from agreeable and satisfied to needy. One such practice was to watch small children in the bathtub in order to see how they interact and respond to bubbles, so that they could make more realistic commercials. A psychologist explained there is only a small difference between this behavior of marketing and pedophilia. Marketers try to sell a product, while pedophiles try to sell themselves.

Is this even close to being ethical? Why is this not illegal? Is it because the politicians also need to target children with their political campaigns?

Is it even remotely appropriate to have such things in our society? What do you think? How far would you go to sell a product?

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Balanced Personal Finance

Thursday, December 24th, 2009

As more of a site announcement, the One-Year Tightrope will be getting another new series on personal finance.

The articles will focus more on credit building and budgeting, because I know very little about debt (I have never fallen into the trap). As such, look forward to something about personal finance on Thursdays. I will continue to post other things, and the series will not necessarily be every Thursday, nor only on Thursdays.

Have a Merry Christmas and I look forward to returning with an article on Sunday. Happy holidays!

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Naked Musings: Happiness is Relative

Thursday, December 24th, 2009
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Any regular reader of personal finance advice has heard about a million times that one of the keys to reducing and avoiding debt and living within one’s means it to end the pattern of trying to keep up with neighbors. Do not buy fancy cars, engage with mortgages for big houses, or take on new credit card purchases in order to make your outward appearance more positive in the eyes of others. This is sound advice and I will likely be writing about it in the future. What this post is about, however, is the bigger lesson here: happiness is relative.

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Keeping a Diet During Holidays

Tuesday, December 22nd, 2009
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Many people set goals at the beginning of a new year. In America, one of the most common goals is to lose weight. Many fail over the course of a year, with a renewed motivation towards the end of the year. But with Halloween being stuffed with candy, a gigantic turkey with stuffing being the norm at Thanksgiving, and cookies galore during the winter holidays (not to mention alcohol at New Year’s Eve), it can be easy yet troubling to get off-track of a diet during this period. This is a guide to avoiding the blues come Valentine’s Day by keeping off the weight you worked so hard to lose.
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Balanced Business: Working from Home

Sunday, December 20th, 2009
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Balancing work with home life can be difficult, especially in this age of technological advancements that have led us to being able to work from home with relative ease. If you make money while you sit around in your pajamas, however, how do you balance home time with work time? It can be a difficult art, which is why I have put together a rough guide to balancing work with life, specifically meant for small business owners or college students who study often and study hard.

Know your limits

To begin with, know how much work you are capable of doing before you will go insane. This could be expressed in hours, to-do list items, or numbers of units processed, but either way, know how much you want to do. This is a basic rule for any work, but it becomes especially important while working from home. Know how much you want to do before retiring for the day.

Know your schedule

Do you work better late at night when the kids are asleep and the parties have died off, or do you prefer to do everything first thing in the morning, before the Sun is up? Perhaps you would rather work in between, during the afternoon when it is warm and you can easily go outside to stretch your legs. Regardless, know when you do your best work and plan around that time.

No interruptions

When doing work, make sure the children are away, the phone is off, the television is muted or powered down, the Internet is unplugged (unless, of course, you work online like I do), and there will be no drop-in visits. Just like working out of the home, anything unrelated needs to be gone and out of mind, or you will be distracted and your productivity will decrease.

Have a space

Similar to dismissing the interruptions mentioned above, it is also distracting to be in the same place for all activities. If you do not have a home office, try working at the dining room table, at a desk, or on a different computer which is separate from your personal usage. If you cannot afford any of these, try a different profile on your operating system and only install useful things for that profile. Remove everything else.

Clean it up

Not only is it important to have an official work space, but it is also necessary to have a clean one. Keep pictures of family and other personal items limited as if your boss will be coming over to check it out. Act like you are in a cubicle (albeit a much more cozy one) and you will work as if you are in one. On the other hand, however, some people do not work well when they feel their surroundings are cold and lifeless. If this is the case, and that is why you are working from home, especially, you should break this rule. Just keep distractions at a minimum without hampering creativity.

End the day

Have a ritual you perform at the beginning and end of your work time. Perhaps you switch on the radio, or turn on a fan, or open the blinds. Whatever you choose, perform it at the beginning and end of every period of work. When you do this, let your mind wander to the next phase (work or play) and do not return to either until your time is through. This is the most important part and also the hardest to perform. Many working from home either work all day or play all day. Neither is healthy. In order to be successful, this step must be fulfilled.

What are your tips for keeping yourself sane while you work from home? Do you work more efficiently at night or at other times? How about your ritual? What has worked for you?

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The Six Habits of Balanced People

Thursday, December 17th, 2009
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In adopting a new lifestyle, we also shed old activities and adopt new ones. Taking from Stephen Covey’s self-help series, I am here to address the six habits of balanced people – what they do daily to strive for their goals and maintain a happy and healthy life.

They plan ahead

Balanced people know where they are going and where they have come from. They can tell you where they will be in twenty years with the strongest conviction you have ever seen. They have goals and everything they do is a step toward one or another.

They are motivated

They know where to find motivation and how important it is to their success. They never have writers’ block because they can write about anything and everything. They want to succeed and they do, because they have the skills and knowledge necessary to accomplish anything. Those they do not already possess they will learn.

They learn daily

They are constantly on a question for personal development and growth and every day, they accomplish or work on mastering something, even if it’s as small as plucking a few keys on the piano. They keep moving because they know idle hands are not productive. Even their down time means something to them, keeping busy by being laid back and calming down after a long working period.

They are patient

They know that good things come to those who work and wait. They strive for goals, but they know that instant gratification is only another way to become a glutton. You can throw any wait at them and there they will sit, perhaps accomplishing something or another in the mean time, perhaps meditating. Either way, they can and will wait for anything good to come.

They work while they wait

Whether waiting for a bus or waiting for an opportunity to open, they know there are things to be accomplished. They work on these things while they wait patiently for whatever it is they need to move along to the next step. Balanced, successful people are those you see reading books at bus stops, organizing the kitchen while they bake, and meditating when the electricity goes out.

They are organized

Not only are their homes simple and free of clutter, but their minds are, as well. They do everything with a purpose and ensure their steps are always in the right direction. Remember: reaching success is not about who takes the most steps, but rather who steps with the most accuracy.

While not everybody will reach a balanced lifestyle – few people will ever even try with reasonable effort – many can learn from those who set a positive example. It is possible to learn by observation, and that is what should be done in this situation. You do not have to seek out a Yogi, but do have a few positive examples in your life of how you want to live. Good luck, as always.

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What I’ve Learned While Naked

Tuesday, December 15th, 2009
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Being in the shower is one of the most serene feelings experienced by humans. Smooth water flowing down your spine and enveloping you in warmth… There is simply nothing better. Not only does a shower provide the service of bathing and smelling nice, but it also provides ample time for your mind to relax and wander away from the day’s stresses. Over the coming months, I will have a new, irregularly updated series about what I have learned and mastered while naked. Today’s musing follows the jump.

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