Almost all people have to have jobs at some point in their lives. Similarly, almost all people working with others will face the occasional painful acquaintance: that person who thinks he’s hilarious, or pokes fun at others and causes emotional distress, or just cannot get things done. Coworkers can be some of the hardest people to be around, but unfortunately, many people spend a third or more of their days in close proximity. Handling obnoxious coworkers is a challenge, but it can be done with some practice and patience
The Comedian
Who they are: The Comedian is a problem because he or she often says things which are not terribly funny (or are at times inappropriate) and expects all others to “get” the humor. This can include sexist or racist (or other offensive-type) jokes, insulting remarks, sarcasm toward bosses or requests, and many other things. The offense comes when the jokes are inappropriate or not well received. Often, this person will become offended easily and throw a fit if somebody sets him or her straight.
How to deal: For the most part, ignoring is bliss. Do not laugh at his or her jokes, but do not roll your eyes either. Simply show no reaction and go about your business as usual. If he or she begins to pick on you directly, tell him or her you appreciate the gesture, but would prefer if you could just get back to work instead of chatting.
The Trickster
Who they are: The Trickster is similar to The Comedian, but the main difference is that tricksters prefer to perform practical jokes rather than cracking punchlines. These are the folks who will put tacks on your chair, plastic wrap over the toilet seat, and similar circa thirty-years-younger pranks.
How to deal: For the most part, there is no way to avoid pranks other than catching less attention than the people around you. Do not make yourself a victim. If they do decide to pick on you, take it with a good heart and ask them not to do so anymore. For some pranks, you may have to report them to your boss, especially if harm is caused.
The Crybaby
Who they are: The Crybaby is a person who whines about every single thing. They think the world is out to make their lives miserable, that you ask them to do things just so you can relax, and that they are certainly not in the wrong. Every chance they get, they will report to all listeners the trials of life.
How to deal: Like the Comedian, ignoring is your best bet. If you must say something, tactfully express your concern with their performance and suggest they find a hobby to blow off steam. Never encourage their outbursts with attention.
How do you deal with your obnoxious coworkers? Do you have any suggestions for how to avoid hazardous situations and decreased performance?
