The Comedian

Who they are: The Comedian is a problem because he or she often says things which are not terribly funny (or are at times inappropriate) and expects all others to “get” the humor. This can include sexist or racist (or other offensive-type) jokes, insulting remarks, sarcasm toward bosses or requests, and many other things. The offense comes when the jokes are inappropriate or not well received. Often, this person will become offended easily and throw a fit if somebody sets him or her straight.

How to deal: For the most part, ignoring is bliss. Do not laugh at his or her jokes, but do not roll your eyes either. Simply show no reaction and go about your business as usual. If he or she begins to pick on you directly, tell him or her you appreciate the gesture, but would prefer if you could just get back to work instead of chatting.

The Trickster

Who they are: The Trickster is similar to The Comedian, but the main difference is that tricksters prefer to perform practical jokes rather than cracking punchlines. These are the folks who will put tacks on your chair, plastic wrap over the toilet seat, and similar circa thirty-years-younger pranks.

How to deal: For the most part, there is no way to avoid pranks other than catching less attention than the people around you. Do not make yourself a victim. If they do decide to pick on you, take it with a good heart and ask them not to do so anymore. For some pranks, you may have to report them to your boss, especially if harm is caused.

The Crybaby

Who they are: The Crybaby is a person who whines about every single thing. They think the world is out to make their lives miserable, that you ask them to do things just so you can relax, and that they are certainly not in the wrong. Every chance they get, they will report to all listeners the trials of life.

How to deal: Like the Comedian, ignoring is your best bet. If you must say something, tactfully express your concern with their performance and suggest they find a hobby to blow off steam. Never encourage their outbursts with attention.

How do you deal with your obnoxious coworkers? Do you have any suggestions for how to avoid hazardous situations and decreased performance?

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I will be following this post with a complete how-to guide on the art of the thank you note in the short future. Until then, tell me: do you send thank you notes to all those who have helped you or, in this case, given you the chance to showcase yourself?

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Etiquette matters because it is what keeps us from harming each other. Regardless of religion (or lack thereof), all should believe that humans have a responsibility to treat others well and take care of their neighbors. Not believing such makes one a sociopath.

We show this respect – this love – through using kind manners. You don’t have to memorize fan language (heaven knows this is ridiculous and outdated these days), but should learn what other people appreciate, what they dislike, what they are just okay with, and what topics are not up for discussion.

As an example, say you miss class because you are not feeling well. A friend calls to make sure you’re okay. You have two choices:

1. Say, “I have stuff coming out of both ends.”
2. Say, “I am not feeling well, but I will be okay. Thank you for asking.”

Which do you suppose will keep your friendship at a reasonable level?

Now say you have missed a class because you wanted to leave early for whatever reason. Again, you have two choices when somebody calls:

1. Say, “I really hate that class and decided to skip out.”
2. Say, “I did not wish to stay, but I am fine. Thank you.”

The former will lead to either a lie or trouble with the professor, should questions arise. The latter will end questions, so long as your friend is as courteous as you. As an aside, it is always rude to leave class early.

While etiquette may seem like a foreign language to you right now, I assure it will become easier over time. Your first assignment, due when I share my next lesson in etiquette, is to think of why etiquette is important and share it in the comments section below.

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