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Too Many Projects: A Remedy

Friday, June 18th, 2010
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Now that we have a diagnosis of too many projects, it is time to discuss remedying the problem.

Write your project list

To begin with, we will need to come up with a list of all our projects, similar to the one that I made in the diagnosis post. To be fair, here it is again for reference:

  1. Programming a website from scratch;
  2. Starting my career as a professional belly dance performer and instructor;
  3. Continuing my web design business;
  4. Writing on this blog;
  5. Writing on my professional “Hey this is me” blog;
  6. Opening a belly dance online store;
  7. Planning my wedding, which is less than a month away;
  8. Writing a book about starting a business;
  9. Hunting for a job in Albuquerque and…;
  10. Looking for a place to live in Albuquerque before…;
  11. Moving to Albuquerque in order to keep on…;
  12. Getting my college education.

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Getting Your Life in Order

Thursday, March 18th, 2010

Social site Enlightr.com has a comprehensive list of 50 things you can do right now to get your life in order. It could have been a little better-organized, but surely there are a few things on it that we can all benefit from doing. What are some of your decluttering techniques?

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Setting Priorities

Thursday, January 21st, 2010

Setting goals is an effective way of getting many things accomplished. However, for personal finance and similar activities, there is an even more important task at hand: setting priorities. Prioritizing is a process similar to goal setting, but there are some subtle and conspicuous differences which are important to know and master.

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How to Do a Year-End Review

Thursday, December 31st, 2009
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Any regular reader of the One-Year Tightrope and all who follow a lifestyle of planning know that reviewing is one of the most important activities involved in staying organized and productive. Reviews also have the ability to increase motivation both negatively (“I wish I would have…”) and positively (“I am so glad I…”). This is a how-to guide for performing an effective end-of-year review.

Step 1: Preparation

Prepare for your review by going to a quiet place, turning off your phone and television, breathing deeply, and focusing on the task at hand. Clear your mind of all other thoughts and stresses as if you are going to meditate (You are going to meditate on the year, after all). Make sure you are at peace before you continue so that you will get an objective, positive review, rather than one that is negatively affected by bad thoughts. Get out a piece of paper or open a new file on your computer. You will be doing some writing.

Step 2: What were your major achievements?

Begin the review by writing out major achievements and how you completed them. For example, if you got a promotion in March and had worked on getting it since January 1, write down that detail. Try to come up with as many major achievements as possible.

Step 3: What were your minor achievements?

I am certain that while listing major achievements, you recognized many minor achievements. List all of these underneath the major achievements to which they apply, or separately if they are not relevant. Perhaps you finished reading five books or can do a few more crunches than before.

Step 4: What did you learn?

Growth is an achievement all on its own, so write “Growth” as its own setting and below it, write everything you learned and accomplished applicable to your journey in life. Some examples may be understanding a complicated concept in your industry or figuring out your parenting style.

Step 5: How did you fail?

A review is not impartial without listing some negatives. Write down how you managed to fail and what you could or should have done better.

Step 6: How is this good?

Turn your negatives into positives by asking yourself what you can take away from your failures. Did you learn something? Do you now have motivation to do something better next time, after seeing the consequences of your poor performance?

Step 7: What will you do the same?

Was there anything you did this year that was absolutely brilliant? Perhaps you learned a new, positive activity or began a hobby that relaxes you and keeps you sane day in day out.

Step 8: What will you do differently?

Do not “undo” your failures, but rather try to think of how you can live your life better for the next year. Perhaps you will exercise more or try to go to bed by a certain time every night, dedicating your evenings to relaxation and re-energizing your mind. This is similar to your New Year’s resolutions, only now you have a guide to building ones that matter.

Step 9: Put it away

Contrary to popular belief, a list of goals does not necessarily work best when it is seen constantly. If anything, it can be a painful reminder of how far behind schedule you are. Take one goal at a time and work on it gradually, breaking it into small steps on a to-do list. As you finish, check it off and find a new goal. Keep it findable and review it often, but do not focus only on it, or you will become stressed.

What is your advice for completing an end-of-year review? Have you done one before? What are you proud of? What does yours look like? What are your goals for the new year?

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Life Coaches: Useful?

Tuesday, December 29th, 2009

One luxury becoming increasingly popular over the last few years is that of having a life coach. A life coach is a person one sees regularly for advice, updates, and help with planning and executing life goals. A life coach may also be a therapist, a close friend, an interior designer, a business mentor, or many other things. Outside of movies and celebreality television shows, I have never seen a life coach nor heard of the services offered. It seems to be a career much like animal psychics: limited to certain affluent areas and laughed at by the majority of working America.

But the segment of the population that reads The One-Year Tightrope is not average. I consider my readers to be intelligent and extraordinary. You guys do want to take measures to keep your life livable and successful, right?

The advantages of seeing a life coach can be many. A weekly, monthly, or even yearly trip with the sole purpose of reviewing previous actions and planning next steps is a healthy ritual I would like to see more of. I do feel, however, that the visits are unnecessary for many people, who have the ability to plan and review just as well on their own, or by brainstorming with close friends who have similar goals and abilities. I bounce ideas off of a few of my friends, particularly Logan, who also authors a blog and is a programmer (and a businessman).

Even so, just as I enjoy seeing a financial advisor informally, I think I would enjoy discussing progress and plans so far with somebody who listens to plans for a living. I think I would also enjoy becoming a life coach, because I do know planning and I believe I could offer some very meaningful advice.

My question for today is whether or not you have a life coach. Do you laugh at the job like much of the rest of us? Are you interested in seeing one? Do you enjoy your visits? What do you actually talk about?

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The Art of the To-Do List

Tuesday, December 1st, 2009

Plans: they come in many forms, but what good are they if they aren’t easily usable and doable? The perfect plan is something easy to follow that flows well and makes sense – changing tasks in the middle of performing them is never a good thing – but is also elusive and impossible. There is something that will come close, though. It’s not a calendar; calendars are meant for reminding you of a date in advance. It’s a to-do list.

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